Child Play

This week in class Sal brought up how different baby boys and baby girls are different from each other. When a baby girl is to cry, the parents normally say, "Oh honey don't cry. It's play sweety.". But if a baby boy was to cry the parents would normally say, "Come on tough guy, don't cry.". In my life I have always been surrounded by little kids my whole life and I have all little cousins who are girls. They are all sassy and cry over things that aren't a big deal but to them it's like the end of the world. My best feiend's nieces and nephew all young and always cry and throw fits. My friend's sister, their mom, treats them all the same when they are crying which is completely different then what Sal said in class this weekend. I love kids and treat boys and girls all the same!

Neglect

In class on Friday we talked about the story about Jennie, the girl who was strapped to a potty chair and locked in a room for 13 years. I was in Psychology first semester and we watched a movie about her story and I couldn't believe my eyes. A child who was forgotten about, abused, never learned how to walk, or even speak was never payed attention too. I couldn't even imagine that happening to someone. Scientists and doctors were fascinated about her story and how she behaved around males and females. Most of the doctors and scientists also became very attached to her and the progress that she was making. It's so awesome to see that people are open to adopting her to make her life better.

Nothing

During the afternoon on Saturday, I went to the mall and did the "Nothing" activity that Sal had assigned us the week before. The assignment was to stand in place for 10 minutes, and do absolutly nothing. It was very awkward. You could see that people were staring at you but you could move or say anything to them. There was one particular couple who had a young daughter, probably five or six, and she kept asking her mom and dad why I was just standing there and not moving and the parents kept on walking. I was findingnit very hard to do nothing for ten minutes because it's not something that you do everyday so it's out of the norm. After I had finished the ten minutes I left right away because I felt so awkward and felt like I was being judged. I thought it was a very cool assignment.

Death in American Society

Americans view death as a bad thing. No one ever wants to lose the one's that they love; but in reality, it's the circle of life. In my life, death is a scary thing because I am very close with my immidiate family and my distant family. Seeing someone who is so tired and weak but still striving and living out each day as if it were their last. I love spending time with my grandma, I feel so lucky. She always gives me advise and I always ask her what she would have done. I asked her one time three or four years ago if she was afraid to die; and she said, "No. Because I had a good run. I have a wonderful family and it I'm so happy to have been around this long! I mean come on!? What 93 year old grandma do you know who can still walk and has all of her marble's"? Watching the movie during class made me realize that when older individuals are sick, dying, or elder; the people that they want to see the most is the family and friends that love them.

Needs vs. Wants

Being raised in an environment that always is wanting the next best thing, can get competitive.  Growing up my parents weren't the type of people who always needed their children to have the best toys or the best looking clothes; they wanted to teach my sister and I that material things are always going to be there.  Once I got into middle school, I realized that everyone wants the next best thing, like Uggs or Northface jackets.  Going to a high school where everywhere you look there is a new brand name, is hard for me because I was never raised on buying something new, I was raised on appreciating what I have.